A Big Boy Bed in Big Brother's Room!

Tate has reached a huge milestone in his little life, moving from his crib into a twin bed! Since the twins will be here in a few short months Tate needed to make his move a little earlier than we had originally planned. (Although at 18 months, he stayed in his crib 2 months longer than Nathan did because he climbed out of his crib at 16 months.)

We're still working on getting him to stay in the bed because he loves the freedom of being able to climb out of bed whenever he wants, but he is so excited about moving in with Nathan!! For right now even Nathan is loving having a roommate, but I'm sure that won't last long!

Sesame Place

In June we took a fun weekend trip to Sesame Place in Pennsylvania with some of our best friends.

We left early Saturday morning and caravaned with the Jen and Brian Smith and their kids Hannah and Bradley, and then meeting up with Mike and Karen and their daughter Mykenzie for lunch outside the park.

After lunch we headed over to the park. The first thing the kids saw was Oscar the Grouch! They were so excited to get their picture with him. Although the afternoon was overcast we got to ride a few rides and watch their parade. Unfortunately thunderstorms in the area shut everything down an hour or two after we got to the park and it wasn't too much later that it started to rain. We stuck around watching one of their live shows hoping the rain would stop, but it only got worse. After a mad dash to our cars in the rain we were all soaking wet. That night we met everyone at the restaurant in the hotel for dinner since no one wanted to venture out in to the rain again.

After breakfast in the hotel the next morning we headed back for day two in the park. The morning started out cloudy, but we ended up with a gorgeous day that let the kids enjoy the water rides in the park. I think the big hit of the day was the little wading pool. We met so many Seasame Street Characters and Nathan even got to participate in a live version of Elmo's World- teaching Elmo about fish. Nathan loved the water and Elmo's World but Tate's favorite part of the whole trip had to be meeting Big Bird in person! He was just starstruck!

Where does your dog live?

I realize that I have some catching up to do. We've had such a busy summer so far, with trips to Sesame Place and Hersheypark, but until I can find the time to sit down and write about those trips I thought I would share a funny Nathan story.

Yesterday at church during the Children's Story the pastor asked the kids if they had a dog and followed-up with the question "where does your dog live?" You can imagine most of the common answers like inside or outside the house. Well, Nathan NEVER gives a common answer! He raised his hand and said "in Maryland," which sent a chuckle through the entire congregation.

California

Over Memorial Day Weekend Nathan and I headed to sunny California with my sister Laurie and my Aunt Pam to visit my cousin Hether who is stationed in San Diego with the Navy. It was Nathan's first flight and he was so excited to get to visit the pilot of our airplane in the cockpit and even sit in the co-pilots chair! We had a great long weekend and did a lot of amazing things, but I think our favorite was our trip to Legoland.

One Boy! One Girl!

We found out a few weeks ago that the twins are one boy and one girl. More to come later, but we wanted to share this news with everyone!

What is Spaghetti?

The reason Tate needed to get a bath in the middle of the day!

Nathan Turns 4!!

We celebrated Nathan's 4th birthday with two parties here at our house. A small party for his little friends on Sunday May 3rd, and a larger party for family on Saturday May 9th. It really is hard to believe that he is four years old already!

His favorite movie lately is Wall-E, so he had Wall-E themed parties. He received some awesome gifts that included a yard tool set, Trouble!, a Leapster, a Slip-n-Slide, and gift cards to Toys-R-Us. It was so great to see him spend the afternoon with his friends and to be able to celebrate his big day with so many family members that love him!

Inner Harbor Trip

This saturday TJ, the boys and I had the pleasure of going to Baltimore's Inner Harbor to meet Megan and Gretchen, two of my old college roommates from Towson for lunch. It had been two years since we had gotten together and it was so great to catch up with both of them. Gretchen's twin boys Dylan and Logan have grown so much since we saw them in 2007. Gretchen had some great tips for twins for me! After lunch we walked around the harbor, the Zahn boys rode the carousel while the Spahr boys played in a near-by sandbox. Then we picked up some dessert, ice cream for Dylan and Logan and popcorn for Nathan and Tate. Such a great day! We should really do that more often. Enjoy the pictures from today and a quick look back at how much the boys have grown since 2007. We really shouldn't let another two years go by before we get together again!

We Have TWINS On the Way!

We just wanted to post a little note that we are expecting two new additions to our family this fall. We have been planning to add Baby #3 once Tate had his first birthday, but were a little surprised at our second sonogram to find a tag-along! Over the last week we have slowly adjusted to the idea of having TWO babies and are starting to get excited about the final additions to our family.

South Mountain Creamery

Last friday Nathan and I got to visit the South Mountain Creamery on Alternate Route 40 with his preschool class. It was a great afternoon learning about how the farmers milk cows, run the farm, and make different kinds of milk, cheese, ice cream, butter, cream cheese and so much more from the milk the cows produce!

Nathan loved watching the cows get milked, seeing all the machines on the farm, meeting the baby cows, and getting to eat ice cream. It really is a lot of fun watching a bunch of 3 year olds interact with animals.

I highly recommend a trip to the South Mountain Creamery for anyone who lives close to the Frederick area and who has little ones who love animals. They also sell all kinds of awesome local food and have home delivery for their milk products!

Happy Easter!

We had such a lovely Easter weekend. We started our Easter celebration on friday night with a yummy dinner at Nan's house with my mother's extended family.

Saturday morning my mom and I took the boys to the Easter Egg Hunt at our church. Unfortunately it had been raining all morning, so the egg hunt was moved from outside to inside the church. After the Egg Hunt my cousin Kristy and I took her daughter Courtney, Nathan, and my cousin Melissa's daughter Maddy to Pottery By Me to paint their own pottery for their birthdays. The girls absolutely loved being able to paint the different pottery pieces that they had picked out. Nathan on the other hand was not so thrilled. He had insisted on coming with us, but once there he decided that he really didn't want to paint and spent most of his time annoying the girls by making a big mess of his portion of the table and flicking paint at them with his paint brush. He eventually gave up and started playing with some toys the shop at on hand.

After dropping all the girls off, Nathan and I headed back to Mom and Dad's to dye Easter Eggs with Tate and Aunt Laurie. I think Laurie and I always have more fun dying eggs than the boys do. Nathan dyed about 3 or 4 eggs and decided he was done, but Tate loved it so much he didn't want to stop! Even after we ran out of eggs he refused to get down from the table. He held onto Laurie for dear life everytime someone tried to get him off of her lap. In desperation she finally decided to start re-dying eggs. His favorite part was stirring the egg around in the cup with his spoon.
Easter morning was filled with hunts for Easter baskets left by the Easter Bunny and church activities. Nathan was so excited to help Tate find his basket underneath the kitchen table, but was even more excited to find his own in the refridgerator. After church we went back to Mom and Dad's for more Easter Baskets. Nathan was looking forward to hunting Easter Eggs left by the Easter Bunny for him at Nonny and Pap's, but unforunately the "Easter Bunny" aka Pap had forgotten to hide the Easter Eggs this year. Poor kid. We had a yummy dinner at the Fireside Restaurant in Hagerstown with Nan, Aunt Pam, Aunt Laurie, and Mom's 2 adopted old ladies- Aunt Florence and Elsie. It was a nice day. We celebrated Easter with the Spahr's earlier in the month at a family dinner, and the boys loved all the goodies they received in their Easter Baskets from Meemaw and Poppaw.

Tate's First Haircut

Just before Easter I decided that it was time for time to get his first haircut. His hair was starting to get pretty long around his ears and in the back, but it wasn't until a woman asked me if he was a girl that I decided it was definitely time for his first haircut.

Tate loves going to the salon with me to get Nathan's haircut, he especially loves seeing all the girls who work there, mostly because they talk to him and generally make a big fuss over him. Although when it came time for him to actually get his haircut, he wasn't too sure about it, as you can probably tell from the look on his face in the picture. In the end he did super. He sat in the chair like such a big boy and watched every move Miss Barbara made in the mirror. With his hair cut he looks much less like a baby and a lot more like a toddler.

Tate Loves to Dance!

I have to apologize for the lack of posts lately. Life has been so busy and chaotic in the Spahr household for the last month. Please enjoy the video of our silly Tate.

TJ and I spent 4 days in Charleston, S.C. in March for our 8th Anniversary. It was so nice to get-away while my parents watched the kids for the weekend. We also had the carpet installed in our basement and we've been working very hard to move the toys down there and make it a fun place for the boys to play. Unfortunately we've also spent a good part of the month fighting one flu bug/virus or another. Thank goodness spring is finally here. Both of the boys have been excited to finally get to play outside again on the few rain-free days that we've had.

Snow Day!!!

We woke up this morning to a blanket of snow. By TJ's estimation we got about 4 inches of the white stuff. After having a yummy breakfast of pancakes and scrambled eggs, we got the boys dressed in their snow gear and headed to the backyard for some time in the snow.

Nathan was thrilled with all of the snow. He had been waiting for a big snow storm all winter. Tate on the other hand, was not thrilled at all. When I sat him down in the snow he purposely fell over and started to cry. It took awhile, but TJ got him smiling and playing in the snow. He even tried to eat it. After a few minutes he got brave enough to get up and walk around in the snow. That's when disaster occured- he fell face first into the snow!!! That was it, he was done! He was inconsolable until he was back in the house and out of his snow gear. TJ and Nathan stayed out for another hour making snow angels and doing other fun things in the snow.

Where's Your Belly?

Happy Valentine's Day!

Tate's Tubes

Tate had his surgery to have tubes placed in his ears this morning. He was such a little trooper. It started with a little bit of a rough night because he wasn't allowed to have anything to eat or drink after midnight. Poor Tate still wakes up once or twice a night and loves to have a small cup of milk to help him go back to sleep. Not being able to have his usual cup of milk made him very upset. We kept him awake until 9pm just to feed him an extra snack before bed, hoping it would help him sleep until we had to wake-up at 5:30, but we didn't have much luck. He was up almost continually from 12:30am until my alarm went off at 5:30am.

While Aunt Laurie stayed with Nathan, Daddy and I took Tate to the surgery center in Frederick, arriving just before 6:30am. They checked him in quickly and we didn't have to wait too long before they took him back to the pre-op area. He was such a charmer! He was a big hit with all the doctors and nurses, and even made a nervous 7 year-old little girl smile (she was getting her tonscils out). While Daddy waited Mommy got to take him to the operating room, and he also got to take his blankie, binky, and Mr. Piggy back with him. I held him as they gave him the funny gas that helped him fall asleep. Since the tube procedure is so fast, he didn't have to have an IV, he needed just enough anesthesia to keep him still while they inserted the tubes.

I was in the waiting room for less than 10 minutes before the doctor came out to tell us everything had gone fine. About 10 minutes after that a nurse came out to take us to see Tate in the recovery room. He was a little scared because he didn't know where he was and he was surrounded by nurses he didn't know. He was trying so hard not to cry, but he had one little tear under his eye. The nurses in the recovery room loved him too. He was most excited to be able to FINALLY drink his cup of milk! He spent the rest of the day a little fussy and sleepy, but overall he did a lot better than we thought he would.

We were even home in time to send Nathan off to pre-school with Aunt Laurie. He was so excited that she was volunteering in his class! Which really worked out well because one of his teachers was sick today. She made 8 new friends who sent her home with special little notes and drawings.

On another note, Tate had his one year check-up at the pediatrician last week and he's right on schedule for everything. He weighs 21 pounds 4 ounces and is 30 1/4 inches tall. Besides Ma-Ma and Da-Da he says "hello" everytime the phone rings (o.k. it sounds more like "O!") and he says "ruff" when he sees a dog or hears one barking.

Happy First Birthday Tate!

It's hard to believe that our little Tate turned a year old on Saturday. We had a wonderful football themed party to celebrate his birthday. He received lots of wonderful gifts and loved having all the kids here to play with him.

We had wonderful food, a yummy cake and ice cream. In addition to mac-n-cheese, green bean casserole, and little hot dogs, my mom made her fabulous sloppy joes and Aunt Pam brought a great taco dip.

Some of his favorites gifts were the golf club set from Nathan, the Go! Diego Go! ball pit from the Burgan's, the Hahn's, the Connor's and Aunt Sharyn, and the Little Tikes police car from Mommy and Daddy, and the funniest little purple pig from Nan. He's also getting a Little Tikes fold-away climber from Aunt Laurie, Uncle Chris and Nonny and Pap, but it's on backorder, so hopefully he'll be climbing soon!

Unfortunately none of the Spahr's could attend Tate's birthday party, so they celebrated his birthday the week before at Daddy's birthday dinner.

Happy Birthday TJ!

On Sunday we celebrated TJ's 32nd birthday with the Spahr Clan. We enjoyed a yummy dinner thanks to Marian and Tim, a great chocolate cake and some really cool presents. We had already celebrated TJ's birthday inconjunction with my Dad's birthday on Saturday evening with my sister and parents. Thanks to my mom for a yummy dinner and fabulous pies!

Winter on the Lake

Most of you know that we live on Lake Lignanore in New Market. It has several small beaches, and is a great place to go swimming in the summer. It also has great trails for hiking around the perimeter. It's a small man-made lake, but it is still beautiful. I love watching the seasons change on the lake. It is especially beautiful in winter when it completely freezes over and has a layer of snow on top of it.


Several years ago I had the idea to start taking pictures of the lake during the four seasons. It took me 4 years to get started, but I took my first picture last fall. My goal is to take a picture of the lake in spring, summer, fall and winter from the same spot and display them as a framed group somewhere in our home. Thanks to the snow storm we had yesterday, I was able to capture Winter on the Lake.

Here are the pictures I've taken for fall and winter.

A Laugh From Nathan

Yesterday while we were watching the Pittsburgh Steelers crush the San Diego Chargers, Nathan asked the funniest question about football I've heard in a long time!

"Mommy, why did Pittsburgh get a time out? Did he do something bad like hit someone?"

Children say the funniest things!

Another Set of Ear Infections

Poor little Tate just can't catch a break. He has been almost constantly sick since the beginning of November. He has had pink eye, multiple colds and now 3 sets of double ear infections. He's had to take four different antibiotics in the span of two months. It goes without saying that our once happy little boy has spent much of that time miserable, cranky, tired and at times without an appetite for food. In the last four months he has only gained a few ounces and sometimes even lost a few, fluctuating between 21 and his high today of 22 pounds (fully clothed with his shoes on).

He saw his first Ear, Nose and Throat doctor on wednesday, when he had only had his first two sets of ear infections. The doctor was very nice and explained that Tate would need one more set of ear infections to be considered a chronic case and be eligible for tubes to be placed in his ears. Well, it took less than 48 hours for his ears to become infected- which seems to be both a blessing and a curse. While any parent hates for their child to be sick, this round of ear infections finally makes him eligible for a preventative treatment. His surgery for tubes to be placed in his ears is scheduled for February 9th. I hope we can make it through the next month with no ear infections, but I have my doubts.

Adventures in Ice Skating

This winter has been particularly hard for Nathan because it's been too cold for Tate to go outside and play, which means Nathan can't go outside. This means that Nathan has a lot of extra energy and spends most of his afternoons bouncing off the walls and going stir crazy in the house.

In looking for a way to distract him, I came across information on our local ice skating rink and ice skating lessons. After some debate, I thought Nathan might enjoy learning how to ice skate. But before signing him up for an 8 week session, I figured I'd better take him to the rink for a public session to see if he even liked it. I thought it might be a fun activity for Mommy and Nathan to do together (Daddy doesn't know how to ice skate, so this activity would be left up to Mommy).

Since I hadn't gone in ten years, I invited my sister to come along. We thought Nathan would be scared at first and get tired quickly, but to our amazement he went right out on the ice and spent the next 45 minutes going around the rink. The three of us had such a good time. Nathan was so proud of himself for doing well, he even let go of our hands a couple of times to try skating on his own. We had to bribe him with an Icee drink to get him to leave. He seemed to be a natural at ice skating, so needless to say we'll be signing him up for lessons this week.

Merry Christmas!

We had such a nice Christmas holiday! We were able to celebrate Christmas with so many of our friends and family, all of whom we are grateful to have in our lives.

This was a particularly special Christmas because it was Tate's first. Although he was a little cranky because he was getting over a two ear infections, we still had a nice day.

Santa really came through this year for Nathan, bringing him his "big dinosaur!"

Please enjoy this picture of our family on Christmas day.

O Christmas Tree! O Christmas Tree!

I love this time of year. Over the years I have tried to fill the month of December with lots of family traditions. A few have been handed down from one side of our family or another, but we've also added a few new ones.
One of our favorite family traditions is to cut down our own Christmas tree. About two weeks before Christmas we head over to a local tree farm to hunt down our perfect tree. It's always a great adventure, going from field to field checking out the trees. "How about this one?" or "Well, maybe we should get this one?" are frequently asked questions. Nathan loves helping Daddy cut down the tree. This year, Tate fell asleep in the stroller before we even got to the Christmas trees and missed the whole experience!

Of course getting the tree is only half of the fun. The other half is decorating it. For me, the decorations placed on the tree all hold special memories. There are the ornaments I made in preschool and elementary school, my White House ornaments, and ornaments handmade by my great-grandmother. But my favorite ornaments now are probably the ones belonging to Nathan and Tate which include their first Christmas ornaments and their Hallmark ornament collection. This year Nathan picked out a Buzz Lightyear ornament from Hallmark. The final addition to the tree is always the angel, selected from my collection of Boyds Bear Tree Toppers.

We hope that when the boys look back on their childhood Christmas's that they will have fond memories of family traditions and good times together. Maybe they will even carry on a few of our family traditions with their own children.

Crazy Day!

Today was another one of those crazy days. You know the ones where you try to fit everything into a window of time that you know is too small and then get mad when you end up rushing around trying to squeeze it all in.

Well the day started out by trying to get TJ, the boys and I dressed in our finest and out of the house for a family picture at JCPenney's Portrait Studio in Hagerstown by 10:40 which meant leaving the house no later than 9:30 (the one in Frederick closed years ago so we have to go either to Hagerstown or Columbia). That in itself is not an easy task.

The pictures went o.k. We got one good one of the four of us, but trying to get a great picture of Nathan and Tate together was next to impossible. Tate kept walking off and Nathan wouldn't sit up or look at the camera. The session quickly degraded when Tate bumped his head on Nathan's shoulder and started to cry. I'm hoping to go back after the Christmas rush and get a good one of the two of them.

Enjoy the one good picture from the day!

Next we went down the mall to visit Santa. Thank goodness there was no line! Nathan and Tate actually sat nicely for their picture with Santa (which came out way better than the ones at JCPenney's) and Nathan got to tell Santa he wants a "big dinosaur" for Christmas.

Next was lunch in the food court, followed by a quick trip in to the Bon Ton to look for a nice shirt for Nathan for Christmas day, but we had no luck there. We jumped in to the car, where TJ took a phone call for work. We made a quick stop at the Prime Outlets in Hagerstown so that I could run into Carter's and look for a shirt for Nathan, also with no luck, while the boys sat in the car with TJ. Then it was straight home because TJ had only taken the morning off from work and needed to log on to his computer by 1pm. Well, we almost made it- I think he logged on at around 1:30!!!